From the Mind of Trevor Stone

Don't load up on the extra helping of parental guilt. If you are worried about leaving your child, you are probably one of those people doing an okay job of parenting. I have a feeling that the parenting thing has some pareto effects. If you go from okay parenting to excellent parenting, you may see a 20% gain in outcome. If you go from awful to okay, your child has an 80% gain in outcome. The lower end of awful though is pretty horrifying.